The problem with “desire” is that they are incel-coded. It’s not just about cringe - cringe comes from somewhere.
Cringe that comes from desire (especially desiring another person) is really because people who display any expression of scarcity / lack in which that lack is another person is incel-coded.
“You are not entitled to another person”, after all.
It's insane how people shame anyone for being 'a simp', yet they yearn to be loved unconditionally. How the doctrine says 'in relationship it's better your partner loves you more then you love them more'. How 'if he wanted to, he would' is simplify everthing, forgeting how complex human can be.
People yearn being someone's true love, but then shame the very action how normally human show their devotion and emotion. Ah yes, it's shameful to show your emotion nowdays I guess.
I am obsessed with your writing!!
🤍 thank you for reading!!
Let me yearn without mistaking it for madness.
Beautifully said!
My grief has transformed my writing and made it more compassionate. Yearning is not foolish, it is a feeling of hope and of possibility.
🩵 beautifully said
In yearning we surrender pride for intimacy.
beautifully said
Thank you - followed you :)
The problem with “desire” is that they are incel-coded. It’s not just about cringe - cringe comes from somewhere.
Cringe that comes from desire (especially desiring another person) is really because people who display any expression of scarcity / lack in which that lack is another person is incel-coded.
“You are not entitled to another person”, after all.
My soul is nourished
I’m so glad!
yearning is a dying art form </3
I yearn as I breathe and this article made me feel real at ease with it .
“I yearn as I breathe” how wonderful!
You think nice
TO BE CRINGE IS TO BE FREE.
exactly 🔥
Yearning for all this… yes!
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Beautiful. Thank you.
Thank you for reading!
This is gorgeously deep and real ❤️🔥
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I love it. Thank you.
Thank you for reading!
This fucks
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It's insane how people shame anyone for being 'a simp', yet they yearn to be loved unconditionally. How the doctrine says 'in relationship it's better your partner loves you more then you love them more'. How 'if he wanted to, he would' is simplify everthing, forgeting how complex human can be.
People yearn being someone's true love, but then shame the very action how normally human show their devotion and emotion. Ah yes, it's shameful to show your emotion nowdays I guess.